I had a horrible hook-up full of awkward dirty talk (on his part— uhm, no I never really wondered what your cum would taste like….and no, no you do not have the biggest dick I’ve ever seen, and what…did you just say that my blow jobs are so good that I SHOULD GET PAID for them?) and no orgasms for me. Anyways, should I call this guy up for a casual hookup (which I intend to get all the things out of or he can get the fuck out of my house) or let him text me?

See, the thing is, I feel like if I let him contact me first, it puts him in a position of power over me and after the derogatory shit he was spouting the other night, I’m not feeling that. I don’t want him to feel like he is using me (because, let’s be honest, I’m using the hell out of him. Scorpio for lyf y’all). Thoughts?

Aint even bovvered.
tipsy tumbling

If ever I thought my thighs were a sufficient reason for me to hate myself, if ever I thought they were an excuse for you to disrespect me, then I was a moron. Because you are an ass hole. And my body is rad.

is kind of rough. I have on an adorable outfit and I know I would look even more adorable with

-mascara

-blush

-and a splash of red or coral lipstick

But I wont do it.  Or maybe I should. Do what I want with my body wheneva. But my face is fine without the makeup…but I want it….fucking…

This really shouldn’t bother me so much.

Experiences/thoughts with no-makeup/no-shave November?

that I enjoy menstruating?

I really do. While I hate the general negatives (cramps etc.) I embrace them.

My body is renewing itself and there is power in that. A dark sort of power, but power all the same. Not dark in the negative sense, but dark in the other side of the moon, the last phase of the goddess, the night, sort of dark. There is power in one’s blood. I feel very connected to the cyclic nature of the world. After all, “we are all born out of darkness and water, brought into this world through blood and through pain” an I am certainly feeling all of these elements at the moment.

Plus, heyhey, I’m not puuuurgnant. Go uterus!

{Way of topic, but are there any thoughts in the ways of herbal birth control?}

Books for Eco-Feminsm are in! Am excited. {: (Taken with Instagram)

I had to. I know I’ll get tons of slack for it, but it really pissed me off y’all.

anything with men— they should initiate something with me.

what the actual fuck?

If I want something, want to move my relationship in a different direction, why shouldn’t I make a move? I’m an independent woman, no net ensnares me. I’m not going to wait on HIM.

Opinions?

Taken with instagram

• Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
• Sweep: Origins
• Sookie Stackhouse: DeadLocked
• The Mysterious Benedict Society 
• The Last Unicorn
• Dark Moon Goddess
• The Wood Wife
• Witch Season
• A Discovery of Witches
• My Booky Wook
• Morganville Vampires
• The Poison Wood Bible
• A Girl’s Guide to Vampires
• Paper Towns
• Eyeliner of the Gods
• Tilt ‘68
• White Oleander

The list so far. What are you reading this summer?

and my life has been changed. LOVE LOVE LOVE it.

I fully plan to be in the production next year. {:

Also, Pork Belly is the best thing in the world.

OHOH and I

1) Danced in a crowded Chocolate Lounge to an amazing Jazz/Swing Band

2) Told an adorable waiter with hippie-moon-child eyes and killer cheek bones that he was attractive.

T’was a wonderful night indeed.

Apparently, women aren’t allowed to do the following

• criticize
• curse (it ruins that ‘sexy, girlie mystique’)
• have acne
• call men an “asshole”-you have to take back that “crazy shit you said”

Fuuuuck. If this is a women’s magazine, why is it almost entirely about what men want, what they need, and what women should do to please them?

A tattoo in my own handwriting dedicated to one of my favorite books, Jane Eyre. When Jane said, “I am no bird, and no net ensnares me. I am a human being of free and independent will” she changed my life.

This, to me, is one of the most powerful feminist statements out there- I’m not an animal, and I don’t fucking need you. It’s just…ah.

"VAGINAS ARE BEAUTIFUL.

OUR SELF-HATRED IS ONLY THE INTERNALIZED REPRESSION

AND HATRED OF THE PATRIARCHAL CULTURE.

IT ISN'T REAL.

PUSSIES UNITE.

I KNOW ALL OF IT.

LIKE IF WE'D GROWN UP IN A CULTURE

WHERE WE WERE TAUGHT FAT THIGHS WERE BEAUTIFUL,

WE'D ALL BE POUNDING DOWN MILK SHAKES AND DOUGHNUTS,

, SPENDING OUR DAYS LYING ON OUR BACKS

THIGH-EXPANDING.

BUT WE DIDN'T GROW UP IN THAT CULTURE, DID WE ?"

(via dividedconsciousness)

I guess that means I’m a manly-man now.

welp.

(Source: bitchouttahell)